A new feeling for me
I've been doing some soul searching lately, particularly about the serious relationships I have been in, of which there are only 3. Well at least 3 where I felt it was serious. I've been on dates, I've had one night stands and casual hookups in the friends with benefits category. Anyway, I am looking at each relationship to find where I went wrong, what I did to help destroy the relationship, and maybe find a way to avoid the problems from repeating themselves. So here we go. 1. The "I swear I will be getting a divorce, we don't even live together" guy Let me preface by saying that when we started dating, I didn't even know I was the 'other woman' - in fact, I never wanted to be that woman. I found out he was married after we had been dating for 7 months. His wife called and I answered - oopsie. Turns out, the guy was not only married, he had 3 kids with his wife and another on the way. At the time, I was 18 and quite naive. Ho